I always knew my mother-in-law, Denise, didn’t like me. She wasn’t outright cruel, but she had a way of making me feel temporary—like I was just a passing phase in her son’s life.
So, when my husband, Julian, invited her over for dinner, I wasn’t surprised when she got a “work call” just as we were about to eat.
“Oh, I’m so sorry,” she sighed dramatically, holding up her phone. “It’s my manager—I have to take this.”
Julian looked disappointed but nodded. “Of course, Mom.”
She stepped away, pretending to listen intently. But then I saw it—her front camera was open, not a call screen. No timer, no missed calls—nothing.
She quickly shut it off, but I had already seen it.
I could have called her out then and there, but instead, I smiled sweetly. “Oh no, Denise, are you sure you have to go? We made your favorite—lemon herb chicken.”
She hesitated for a split second, eyes darting away. She knew I had seen. But she was committed to the lie. “Yes, unfortunately. It’s urgent.”
Julian gave a small smile. “Of course. We’ll do this another time.”
Denise grabbed her purse and practically ran out the door.
Later that night, I casually mentioned it to Julian. “Did you notice anything weird about your mom’s call?”
He frowned. “What do you mean?”
I hesitated, then said, “She wasn’t actually on a call. Her front camera was open.”
He blinked. “Wait… what?”
I shrugged. “She faked the whole thing.”
Julian was silent for a moment, then let out a small chuckle. “I don’t know whether to be annoyed or impressed.”
I grinned. “So what do we do?”
A mischievous glint appeared in his eyes. “We invite her again.”
The next week, we set the perfect dinner—her favorite meal, a beautifully set table, even her favorite dessert.
And, right on cue, her phone “rang.”
“Oh dear,” she said, barely glancing at it. “It’s work again. I really hate to do this, but—”
Julian cut in smoothly. “No worries, Mom. We’ll wait.”
She hesitated. “Oh, it might be a long call—”
“No problem,” I added, smiling. “We don’t want you eating cold food, so we’ll just hold off until you’re done.”
She froze, phone still to her ear. She was caught. Finally, after an awkward pause, she sighed and set it down. “Alright, fine. You got me.”
Julian raised an eyebrow. “Mom, why?”
She let out a breath. “I just… I didn’t think you’d notice.”
I softened. “Notice that you faked a call? Or that you don’t actually want to be here?”
Her face flushed. “It’s not that. It’s just… I’m used to it being just Julian and me. And now it’s different. Sometimes, it feels like I’ve lost my son.”
Julian sighed. “Mom, you haven’t lost me. But I have a wife now. We’re a team.”
She nodded slowly. “I know. I just… I felt like if I didn’t come, you’d stop inviting me.”
My heart softened. “Denise, you don’t have to pretend. You’re always welcome here—not out of obligation, but because we actually want you here.”
Her eyes misted slightly. Then she nodded. “Okay.”
That night, for the first time, we had a real conversation. She wasn’t overly warm, but she tried. And maybe—just maybe—she started seeing me as more than just a temporary part of Julian’s life.
Sometimes, people push away not because they don’t care, but because they’re afraid of being left behind. And sometimes, a little understanding is all it takes to change things.